Baby Momma 2: February 26th

It's closer than you think!

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After the bitter and surprising cards were dealt to her son's father, Rasheed, in book one of Baby Momma, Michelle is finally looking forward to leading a normal, quiet family life. However, there is nothing quiet about the secret live’s the people around her are leading. Michelle finds herself drawn in by the allure of her budding real estate career, catering to the likes of models and basketball players and enjoying the sex-fueled spoils of the rich and shameless lifestyle. This only highlights the unsettling fact that her marriage and home life aren’t as picture perfect as she imagined. When things begin to fall apart and fingers start pointing, it leads her down a dark and dangerous path. Her present is united with a past that could potentially destroy everything she’s worked to achieve.

Michelle’s journey is comprised of twists and turns, temptation and erotic encounters, and Michelle has only seen the tip of the iceberg. Only time will tell how far down in the depths of deceit she'll go in her attempt to shake her past and fortify her future.

The Super Friends

We are a mess - but we always have soooo much fun!

Aww...I'm sorry but he/she just ain't that into you boo boo

     It happens.  You're dating someone and things are going good.  You spend every second of damn near everyday together and before you know it you panic and go into that "oh $hit, things are going so well - I'm happy and smiling....ooooh how can I f*ck this up?" mode. 
     You might accidentally blurt out the L***word too soon or ask the dreaded "Where is this thing going" question that almost NEVER gets the answer that's expected.  WELP I've tried and tested and tried again, and I can now say without a doubt these are some pretty fool proof ways to tell if Someone's just not that into you...
1.  Are you initiating all of the one on one time - like dinner or a movie? 
2 . If you two are sexually active - are you doing any other activities together OUTSIDE of sex.  (you might just be a convenient booty call)
3.  When you have a crisis or an emergency does this person rush to your side or even care to make sure you're okay - say you get sick would they actually offer to bring you soup or medicine or just text and say get better and have a good night?
4. Have they cut off dating other people??? (this one is important - if they're still looking well, that says a lot right there...)
5.  Are the only times you hear from them when they're just "bored" and looking for something to do? 
6. Have you met each other's closest friends?  (someone that isn't serious-serious could care less about meeting your friends and definitely wouldn't want you meeting theirs.)

     Those are my TOP SIX picks . . .actions definitely speak louder than words so no matter what someone says still take into consideration how you feel and how you feel you are being treated.  Nine times out of ten, if you have to ask the question you're not going to like the answer. . .and ten out of ten times when a person says they aren't ready for a relationship it usually just means they're ready - they just aren't ready for a relationship WITH YOU. 
 Tadaa!   - - -I really just wrote this as a wakeup call to myself, kind of like a friendly note to self.  BUT if I'm wrong on any of these - correct me.  Or maybe I overlooked some ish that might help keep me on my toes.  <3 'Chelle

Sitting here thinking about my Dating life annnnnnd..........WHY ME.....

So I still have TONS of material for Baby Momma 3 since Part 2 is done and will be out this February. 
Just sitting here thinking about some of the dates I've been on and these aren't the TOP 3.

 I'm saving those for a damn novel but omg if they don't make me question my people picker ...smh.


Date A took me to a restaraunt and when I asked for a glass of Riesing ... Date A then asked me
 "What is that, some kinda candy?" - NEXT

Date B picked me up in a brand new pristine shiny black Mercedes and as we weaved through traffic I couldn't help noticing how "carefully" this fool was driving.  Like looking for the turn signal, and accidentally hitting the wiper and $hit.  Changing lanes and checking 2, 3, 4 times before getting over. 
Of course my Spidey senses go up to about a 7 at this point.  Well needless to say after the date and a ton of ignored phone calls on his part I get dropped back off at my house and low and behold around 2am I'm awakened by the eerie glow from a "PRIVATE CALLER" on my phone. 
Not thinking because I'm half sleep I answer...
Me:  "Um hello?"
Irate female:  "Who da hell is dis?"
Me:  "You called me, who you lookin for?"
Her:  "Was you out wit' such an such earlier?" 
-At this point all I'm thinkin is ...Oh Lord, here we go.  I KNEW something was up with this mufuka.
Me:  "It depends on who's askin."
Her: "His Fiance' askin' and I'm four months pregnant and I can't BELIEVE you was up in my car, and that mufuka took you out to eat and paid wit MY credit card..."
-She's goin on and on, crying now cuz she pregnant and the hormones is kicking in...it was our FIRST and last date I wasn't that pressed. 
Me:  "Look mama, I ain't know nothin about you and I'm sorry he tried to play you - you ain't gotta worry about me."
Her:  "The hell I don't.  That nigga comin' to stay wit' yo azz cuz' I'm puttin him out right now..." she screams and starts cursing at him in the background.  I can hear things bring thrown around...oh hellllllll to the nah he ain't.  Chelly hangs up the phone.

Date C looked flawless on paper.  We actually met online (me and those dating sites smh - I've banned myself from them now lol) anywho we emailed back and forth for a few weeks.  No kids.  Well spoken.  Just moved back to the area.  Had two roommates, nothing major.  Seemed like a good choice.  We decided to meet at happy hour to go through the whole "interview/getting to know you process."
WELL as the drinks started pouring the fool got more and more honest and as it turned out "just moved back to the area" was just another way of saying he'd just been released from doing seven years in a federal penitentiary and that roommate ...well they were actually his parents.  And no kids.....ah that was a COMPLETE lie.  He had a 5 year old (are conjugal visits still a thing because I was too flabbergasted to ask HOW that came about) He lied about his son because he didn't want me to disqualify him for having a child.  LIKE EVERYTHING ELSE WOULD'NT HAVE BEEN A DISQUALIFIER (O_o) 

 - - -Needless to say I've had my adventures in the dating world, and I care to repeat NONE of them.  These were alllll a long time ago, but they definitely make for entertaining stories lol  <3

Baby Momma Inspiration...

People don't know this but a ton of the situations I put Rasheed in were actually based on my real life experiences. There were times when I was "Honey", and I was wide eyed and clueless believing EVERYTHING a nigga told me and then there were other times when I was "Michelle" tired of the b.s. and the lying but somehow every single time I'd make up my mind to leave the situation I'd fall victim to a smile or an apology a kiss and we'd be right back where we started. A few of the scenarios Ive written about in detail exactly as they happened...if you've read BABY MOMMA see if you can figure out which ones =)

<3 Ni'chelle

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